So I was watching this video on the internet about women with big breasts and there was this thin 19 year old girl with 32EE cup breasts (she later found out her PROPER cup size was a 30G cup) and I was like hot frikin damn! She was pretty cute too. Then during the course of the show one of the commentators said how many girls have really low self esteem from being so busty and the attention they get.
I’ve heard this before and every time it strikes me as odd. How does huge amounts of attention lower self esteem? I mean shouldn’t it be the other way around? I can understand feeling frustrated that guys are ogling the boobs and drooling. Or that girls are ogling the boobs and are jealous as sh8t. I can even understand a touch of anger or something along those lines but low self esteem?
Listen, despite the amazing proportions that genetics have given these girls, they’re not subhuman. They can do everything like you and I can and have great personalities to match. They know this, their friends know this, and most guys know this! So why low self esteem?
If any thing they should be proud to have extra portions of what people find so desirable and ADD to that awesomeness. It’s like cars (yes I’m gonna go there), you have cars with tons of power (personality) but looks like a dying rust bucket. there are cars that look AMAZING, but will get left at the light by a turtle. then there are cars that look slammin, AND have the tire spinning torque to back it up! That’s where these busty young girls come in. If you know your a great person, there is no reason you should have low self esteem because you have huge boobs. Just look at it as just being that much more desirable.
(note: If this comes off sounding chauvinistic or stereotypical or what ever, understand that was not the intent.)
If you’d like to see the video it can be found here:
http://www.guba.com/watch/3000106762/BBC-My-Big-Breasts-and-Me
Okay, see, if more men thought the way you did, then maybe busty women would have more self esteem. But unfortunatly, most men tend to view busty women as being simple objects of lust, and most women, busty or not, know this.
Let me run this scenario by you; Let’s say a woman who’s has big boobs is working at some anonymous business-type building. Now, she’s a really hard worker, and smart too. So one day she gets a promotion. Now, she’s all happy and stuff, but she overhears the other employees whispering behind her back about only getting that promotion because she has big boobs. And maybe it’s true.
The thing is, a lot of men don’t care about the woman being a great person, they just care about her breast size. Some women just feel that the bigger their breasts are, the smaller they seem to be to other people.
Being desireable isn’t always a good thing. Okay, sure, if the woman wanted to be a actress or model, or hell, even a porn star or stripper, or whatever, then yes, being desireable is a good thing. But some women excell in other feilds, such as being really smart, strong or creative, and would like to be recognized for their talents in such feilds, but can’t, because they are always being compared to Pamela Anderson, thus, they have low self esteem.
Yup. Well, you know what they say about too much of a good thing. By the way, I just discovered your site a couple days ago, I gotta say I’m loving the art! I’m definently gonna keep checking back ;)